With the romances "2" means committed and "3" ended - in your case Jaheira's romance is automatically switching to 3 because you already committed to Aerie's romance. You should s… (View Post)

Tweaks Anthology/cdtweaks has a component that does pretty much this - there are 3 options for either re-randomizing every time you reload, trading the item you get with a merchant or I think somethi… (View Post)