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My point is that putting all these questions in the options would be problematic for players new to the game.I don't see why. The game is perfectly playable without the bells and whistles that EE added. It would be no different than changing your Feedback options or enabling Autopause. It is something you can do once you have got a feel for the game and decided how you want it to be.
I always end up buying the amulet and placing it onto one of my characters, a tank normally, but then I end up forgetting about it and not really using it very often, to the point that I recharge it maybe once at a store..I decided I needed to get hold of it after a recent solo run came to an abrupt end when I ran into a Sirine. They get three attempts to Dire Charm you so you only need to miss one time and it is game over.
I tend to end up just making sure to interrupt spellcasters rather than protect myself from the effects if they manage to get it off.