Playing Baldur's Gate 2 again for the first time in years - Which mods should I use?

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I am a long time fan of the Infinity Engine CRPGs like Torment, Baldur's Gate series, and Icewind Dale series. I have played them all in the past.
My favorite was Planescape: Torment, of course, with Baldur's Gate 2 being my second favorite. I've decided to reinstall Baldur's Gate 2, so that I can introduce my girlfriend to the game and play multiplayer co-op. The new Baldur's Gate 2 Enhanced Edition looks really nice. However, I'm debating on whether buying the enhanced edition version or buying the cheaper regular version on GOG and applying mods to it.
I have several questions:
(1) is the enhanced edition worth paying more for than the normal version after applying mods,
(2) if I were to buy the enhanced edition, is there a standard list of about three to five good standard mods for the enhanced editions,
(3) if I weren't to buy the enhanced edition, what are the few standard recommended mods for the non-enhanced version of Baldur's Gate II, and
(4) is there a mod that makes Baldur's Gate II use the 3.5 DnD rules (like Icewind Dale 2) instead of ADnD?
I'm really interested in what your opinions are on whether Baldur's Gate 2 Enhanced Edition is better or worse or equal to Baldur's Gate 2 regular with mods. I'm a mod noob.
My favorite was Planescape: Torment, of course, with Baldur's Gate 2 being my second favorite. I've decided to reinstall Baldur's Gate 2, so that I can introduce my girlfriend to the game and play multiplayer co-op. The new Baldur's Gate 2 Enhanced Edition looks really nice. However, I'm debating on whether buying the enhanced edition version or buying the cheaper regular version on GOG and applying mods to it.
I have several questions:
(1) is the enhanced edition worth paying more for than the normal version after applying mods,
(2) if I were to buy the enhanced edition, is there a standard list of about three to five good standard mods for the enhanced editions,
(3) if I weren't to buy the enhanced edition, what are the few standard recommended mods for the non-enhanced version of Baldur's Gate II, and
(4) is there a mod that makes Baldur's Gate II use the 3.5 DnD rules (like Icewind Dale 2) instead of ADnD?
I'm really interested in what your opinions are on whether Baldur's Gate 2 Enhanced Edition is better or worse or equal to Baldur's Gate 2 regular with mods. I'm a mod noob.
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2)I dunno much about mods, but I hear a lot about SCS, asencion, Bg2tweaks, and look into NPC mods.
3)most mods are comparable, the lost shouldn't be any different.
4) not that I know of. That would be a huge change. Though I have heard of something called IWDification, I don't know what that is. I think it's cosmetic.
Invisible 5) the EE's are far superior to the original. Lots of bug fixes, the like. Remember this is pretty much the same game, just with some new NPC's, their quests, and lots of fixes. The black pits are also a nice little game.
As to mods: I recommend SCS (highly) and Ascension. There is a version of ascension that is useable for BGII:EE and there is a thread about how to install it somewhere on the forums.
Many people like Unfinished Business as well, but I am not familiar with it entirely. I would note that much of the unfinished business mod is already included in the Enhanced Edition.
IMO this one feature makes BGEE worth it, not mentioning all the other niceties.
There is a bug with SCS on the battle in ToB with Sendai that has caused numerous people difficulty. A solution to this problem was reported yesterday by Dam23. The solution simply involves changing 2 scripts in the Sendai battle, which you can do manually or by downloading a short zip file. Here is the link to Dam23´s fix https://forum.baldursgate.com/discussion/comment/495410/#Comment_495410
One favor, would anyone be kind enough to post the download links to the most recent SCS and Ascension mods for BG2:EE? I have zero experience with mods, and I don't even know what is most recent or where to look.
Thanks
What I'd suggest more is BPSeries AI scripts. They allow you to reduce micro-management of the team by making AI of your characters competent enough to deal with medium level dangers and use their advantages even when you forget about them.