This is my first post here, I've actually come here for relationship advice.
I've been playing through BGEE1, SOD and BGEE2. I'm up to chapter 6 Shadows of Amn. In the first game I did the Neera romance as she is definitely the funniest character in the game, got to the end of her romance in SOD and because I didn't read any spoilers wasn't aware that she was even going to be in BGEE2, as I thought the ending at the end of SOD had a real bittersweet feeling to it, with her departing to help her people. So in BGEE2 I end up taking Aerie into my party and going through the romance options with her, which all came thick and fast and the story about her wings getting cut off and all that stuff was kind of sad, so I ended up telling her she was great all the time because it seemed like the diplomatic thing to do with someone if they've been through trauma, but then like the terrible person I am I ended up stringing her along. Anyway it wasn't until somewhere towards the end of Chapter 2 that I actually encountered Neera again, as I had no reason to go to the Bridge District at that point and was actually one of the last places on the map that I actually visited, so this was very late in the day. From a RP perspective this was kind of interesting, as it's like an old flame popping up when you're actually establishing a different sort of relationship, except the Aerie relationship is more based on pity than it is any kind of real respect, so anyway I got to the end of Chapter 3... now I'm on chapter 6, and both of them have been fairly quiet for hours and hours of gameplay, whereas in Chapter 2 they wouldn't shut up, same with Jaheira and Viconia who were also in my party, I kind of snubbed out the Jaheira romance as always imagine that she's in her 40s or 50s. Anyway neither Aerie or Neera are active as romances for some reason as think some conflict happened and I'm not getting any dialogue, it's the Neera romance I'm after the most but at this stage I'd probably settle for anything.
So long story short, I've broken the immersion experience of this great set of game by downloading EEKeeper, also installed the multiple romance thing to stop them from cancelling each other, is there any chance that someone can have a look at the variables to see what's going wrong? I've tried all kinds of console commands and stuff on EEKeeper like changing settings according to what I've read elsewhere on this forum, but nothing seems to work.
Thanks very much in advance, sorry if I've rambled on a bit, I missed these games when they first came out, and finding the experience of discovering them decades after their first release to be completely amazing as an experience, so would be nice to get all of this on track before I get to the end.
(another thing to ask is if I start Throne of Bhaal without completing either romance, do you get the chance to start the romance afresh? Or does it carry over your romance choices? Just asking as everytime I meet a character from a previous installment, I usually have to remind them that we've met, or they say "Hmm do I recognise you, or do you just have one of those faces?" I guess if the Neera romance has the chance to restart itself in Throne of Bhaal then that's probaby going to solve the issue.)