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As per https://forums.beamdog.com/discussion/78352/nalia-wont-take-no-for-an-answer#latest
it seems that Nalia will stay on as a companion only if you are strong in your refusal/lack of interest in listening or offering help in anyways. I'm currently playing as a F/M multi and had intended on taking the Planar Sphere as my one stronghold. Because I responded in an empathetic manner, Nalia wouldn't join my party afterwards and is currently standing outside her drawbridge - my only two dialogue options are to accept the stronghold or (apparently) refusing and her leaving the game. Is there a way to trigger the initial dialogue once the keep is cleared or an EEKeeper variable I can manipulate so I can have her join the party w/out having to accept the stronghold?