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TheBarbarian wrote: »
You cannot extend protection into an environment that you reject, or that rejects you. If you do not build alliances with the people who frequent these environments, you and your cause will be left standing outside, rebuffed as a hostile force that must be defended against. If you want to affect change for the better; it is your "opponents" who are capable of giving that to you. Don't make interacting with you, listening to you, something that makes them miserable, or they won't be willing to listen at all. In that, you too must be willing to offer respect in order to receive respect.
FreshLemonBun wrote: »
In general I agree with what you're saying but lets point out the obvious a few more times. First thing is that while players might play on a server that is called "social" or "adult" that does not mean they are interested in erp either. The main difference is that on an adult server and more so on a social server you let other people do as they please so long it is (1) legal, (2) consensual, (3) not disruptive. So yes while you can be sexually healthy in real life and not engage in erp you can also play on those servers and not engage in erp. All of these things are completely independent of each other.