What to do about Adult servers?
TrentOster
Administrator, Developer Posts: 433
Hello everyone. I wanted to start an open discussion about adult content servers and how the game and community should handle them. As a shipping software product with a Teen (PEGI 14) rating we need to be aware that a number of our users will be underage for adult content. I'd like to hear the general opinions of the community on the issue as we try to form a strategy and approach going forward.
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While we operate a strictly PG13 server, I am aware that 'erotic roleplay' is something that many NWN player enjoy (not my cup of tea), so offering them some degree of (discreet) support may not be bad thing, but I really don't think they should show up as normal on the server list.
I have 2 suggestions, though I prefer the former I understand it may require more policing than Beamdog would like to commit to.
So option 1
Adult servers are required to notify Beamdog, and receive an override file they can add to their installation, which will allow them to be shown on the server list. They can distribute this privately to their players, but it won't be openly posted or linked to on the Beamdog forums.
I think this is the best way to fully protect children playing NWN, while offering some degree of support.
and Option 2
Simply add a filter (opt in) to to player list for adult servers, perhaps one requiring the user to enter whatever game verification code Beamdog employs.
* Add a set of tags that servers can use to self-describe, voluntarily through configuration on their end. One of these flags is Mature/Adult.
* Allow the server list to be filtered by tags.
* Ask the user on first start if they are of age and willing to see explicit multiplayer content.
Job done! (?)
Nothing is stopping from a person going onto any online PW server and partaking in adult themed scenerios; nor should privately owned servers have to moderate this behaviour as it would be hard to have 24/7 coverage.
Sinfar (and I think this is why you brought this up) I believe does this right. It has Adult in the title explicitly explaining what may transpire on that server. I doubt it'd be possible to age verify users securely.
Both Beamdog and server are not the kids parents.Its the parents responsibility to make sure kids are not being exposed to anything they shouldnt be exposed too.
If you want to privately discuss what steps Sinfar does when it determines it has a underage user, you can contact them. I have his email available if you would like to go this route.
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As @Irongron suggested, you can add a adult content switch. You already have it for violence in the game, it might be togglable for adult content servers as well.
But as I said, nothing is preventing it from happening on servers NOT toggled either, hence why online play is not rated, ever.
Server that operate this kind thing have as much an interest in protecting children as anyone else, and I expect almost all would flag themselves appropriately.
I agree with @Ninjamestari .
The ESRB website itself gives this guidance about ratings: (https://www.esrb.org/ratings/ratings_guide.aspx)
"Online Interactions Not Rated by the ESRB" - Warns those who intend to play the game online about possible exposure to chat (text, audio, video) or other types of user-generated content (e.g., maps, skins) that have not been considered in the ESRB rating assignment.
In the past NWN servers doing that have done so responsibly, and I believe would do so again.
Having an extra tag, for 'erotic/adult content' that servers can choose to flag themselves as, along with a forum filter would serve both sides. The truth is these servers can be very popular, and once the server list populates with all the new player mods the filter would work not only as a tool to protect those not wishing to see them, but as a way to promote those servers to those that do.
But this burden, if much, should be on the server's administrator's shoulders, not on Beamdog's.
I use to be a DM in an Underdark scenario and had no issues banning kids when I notice one.
Is like asking: what should we do to prevent a 13 yo from buying and playing our game?
Answer: nothing.
The tells I got as a result weren't pretty.
Self-describe means that it's on the server to flag themselves; it's voluntary and not really enforceable. Clearer info + lack of policing = good to me
But looking at it from a serious perspective, you can't do much about it. Banning Adult Content will only make PW owners put descriptions about their world as fun, family friendly, heavy RP full of adventures with active Dungeon Masters and high-level magic rewards.
So what are you going to do, Trent?
Nothing. You let the community police itself. Players who are not interested in jiggly breasts or a large swaying penis, or perhaps both on one character, well they avoid servers such as that and word of mouth gets around. As Ted said in Ted 2, "they're guys with breasts, not chicks with dicks!"
Why do you think Sinfar is popular with some, and not with others?
You don't have to do anything. Players talk and players simply avoid servers they are not interested in. Those who enjoy it, they find it. It is as simple as that. Do you have a passion for Neverwinter Nights or not? If so, you let it be what it is and let the vision, creativity and passion of those who make use of it, flourish. If not, well I guess you police it.
It's like a porn site. You go to get your socks off, or you don't.
Please, don't try to police the community. Servers that cater to it, they express themselves proudly and find players who are looking for that content. They're adult for a reason, let adults be adult about it.
Those players who are not into adult content simply find content they are looking for, and there is plenty to go around.
Anyway, if your kid is doing something you're not aware of, well, you have bigger problems with your communication skills than you do with their gaming skills.
Be proactive about it.
Emphasis mine I think this is actually the main topic, not an attempt to "do" anything with/about the servers themselves. (Misleading thread title there, I agree.) The conversation doesn't seem to be about how to get rid of them, make them PG-13, etc, but rather a, shall we say... discussion over whether there should be a more informed choice than "word of mouth gets around" ?
Don't get me wrong, I could be mistaken! But I think they made it clear in the stream the other day that they won't be moderating community content, even if they don't exactly "feature" them on their web site. So, while I think everyone so far (?) is actually in agreement that trying to moderate those servers is a bad idea, providing more information to users doesn't seem like a bad thing, in the coming days where you can just browse servers again without hitting their websites and knowing all about them, first. Or, in the case of other suggestions, enabling parents (or users that just want to be able to filter for themselves!) to have the option, without trying to actually be the parents.
My last post, I promise; not trying to debate over opinions when opinions are called for
This community has done well enough over all the years without some button, flag or opt-out option.
I wouldn't care if my kid saw the former (I did), but the latter is a different story.
Furthermore, the overwhelming majority of servers are not adult-based, so you're not going to end up in a situation where your kid has "a bunch" of adult servers in the server browser. All three of the adult servers I listed additionally stipulate that they are adult servers as well.
You're my hero for bringing back NWN, but I think you're making a mountain out of a molehill on this.
With that said, I think the "opt-in" option might work best. Servers should probably be required to avoid anything explicit in their names, and perhaps include some ESRB-equivalent tag in their listing. The server list could then be configured by users to filter out those with certain tags, so they don't even appear. Then, when a client connects, a yes/no confirmation message appears with all the legal niceties to further ensure the player agrees to connect, knowing the content's rating.
As to how to make sure servers are using the proper rating... This would probably require a good deal of resources on Beamdog's part. A few ways I can think of are:
1. Keep it voluntary, and policed by the player base. If a player comes across an improperly tagged server, they could send a report to Beamdog, who could then further investigate and make ratings changes as needed.
2. Beamdog could proactively monitor servers and server data for content that doesn't conform to the server's rating.
3. Have an "approved for all audiences" program, where servers are submitted to Beamdog for a seal of approval, and a switch that can be set by users on the server list to only show "approved" servers.
There are obvious downsides to all of these, and really the only sure way to keep children from adult content is through unyielding vigilant parental control, and even that doesn't really work.
I also don't thing a full server should be 'punished' if two of the participants got caught being a little too friendly to each other in some obscure inn or other less traveled area.
I don't know. I think adult server owners should have a bigger say in the outcome. They are the ones talked about.
Won't stop kids from lying about their age, of course, but they'd be hidden from the ones who don't explicitly go looking for them, and writing in the birth date is much less obvious than clicking a "Yes, I'm over 18 years old"-button. Any kid to whom it'd occur to lie on this kind of check is explicitly looking for the adult servers, and has probably seen some (expletive) elsewhere on the internet already.
I don't think we need to put that many resources into managing the integrity of server advertisements beyond that.
But because Sinfar servers are clearly for adults only, we mention (18) or (Adults Only) in the name. Then when a character is created they get a dialog and they must consent that they are 18+. Then they need to download our haks. Finally we have in game rules (https://forum.sinfar.net/viewtopic.php?f=2&t=11293) so that, in short:
- Nothing illegal happen
- Nothing obscene happen publicly
- Everything that happen behind closed doors must be consented
To improve that, I think there should be a convention for the ratings in the servers name, like Niv said: Teen, Mature, Adult. Then add a filter and colours and we are good to go!
Largely what I will say reiterates Mavrixio's commentary above.
Roleplaying games outside of a pre-coded RPG with controlled content cannot be prescribed by a singular rating. As the content will shift with both the storyteller and players involved, the expected content will always change. I believe we've probably all seen the warning many games have these days: "Online experiences may vary."
It would be, in my not very humble in this case opinion, for NWN:EE to come with that same notion, and that servers possess the ability to apply filters / categories to themselves that can be clearly seen. Franky I have played on plenty of PG-13 servers where I have encountered adult content both in the purview of staff and outside of it where it was excused as "part of the storyline", from violence to illicit substance use and extreme moral ambiguity to plain(or not ehem) old sex stuff. So honestly, trying to "rate" the game and claim this applies to the online setting is more than mildly misleading, as it simply isn't and more likely, cannot be, policed.
Sinfar as a prime example of an adult server, labels it self as such in its name, requires every single new character to tick off that the player is 18+, hosts in game rules that note this, and finally provides forum rules that note this. Beyond ensuring that every player is well aware of what they will encounter, every character on the server has the tools necessary to immediately leave any roleplay situation they do not wish to participate in, thereby all roleplay is by consent.
Perhaps beamdog could consider not only filters, but a parental consent that requires email confirmation by the owner of the install to allow the adult filter to be enabled? Parental lock options on online services are fairly common these days if I'm not mistaken.
* edited to fix a spelling error (preview of staff to purview of staff)
let's say someone built a PW server and didn't marked it with the 18+ marker on server manager.
then some random guy in the server starts a virtual party and use some ... less appropriate *unzip pants* RP session.
What exactly can you do about it?
I imagine Beamdog can't dedicate resources to monitor every activity in the game.
Also let's talk single player, can you truly monitor each and every bit of fan created content to give them the seal of approval they are free of mature content?
imho,
It's up to the user discretion or parents, if we talking about minors here, to monitor what their kids are doing.
You simply can't monitor all the content... it will take you more time then developing the game in the first place.