BG:EE after 5 years is BROKEN and UNPLAYABLE

For the love of God, why the HELL is this game broken crap? It was released in 2012. I'm infuriated. I can't go 20 minutes playing with my friend without problems. The game freezes, starts rapidly pausing and unpausing ("paused for movie"), becomes incompatible and won't let my friend join without doing lua fixes... I'm genuinely angry. I'm not trolling. How can this game be so broken? it was released in 2012. How many patches have been released? dozens? I'm on the latest stable, and so is my friend. It took me forever to get him to play with me and this is ruining it for both of us. We haven't even been able to get into the Nashkell mines yet because of this malarky.
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What version, OS and platform are you both playing on?
latest patch. Both Windows.
What was causing issues on our MP-game we had @Thels?
The game with friends vs with NPCs is little different. The only pain was when multiple people instinctively pushed pause at the same time and rapidly paused and unpaused the game - but that could be handled with adequate auto-pause options.
The new conversions have had to do a *ton* of work because the infrastructure to get the game to actually play as it used to in multiplayer is kind of a nightmare, because the original games relied on directX to do all of their internet handling, which isn't something directx even does anymore, so you either have to do a *ton* of fiddling with your router and use a service like Hamachi to set up a network, or hope Beamdog has sussed everything out correctly and your hardware and internet play nice.
I attempted to play BGEE on multiplayer but had major latency issues so I just chalked it up to having awful internet - which I do.