I'm sorry if this has been answered before, but I've googled for the better part of an hour trying to figure this one out.
I currently have Aerie, Jaheria and Viconia in my party, and am in the starting parts of the romance with Aerie and Jaheria. I actually want to romance Viconia, but so far only the Jaheria and Aerie romances have fired. CHARNAME is a half-elf, so there's no racial barrier for Viconia here.
I've looked at the variables using EE Keeper, but what's weird is that whenever I advance real time with the console, only Jaheria and Aerie's romance timers change. Viconia's remains the same. I have ViconiaMatch set to 1, and the RomanceActive variable is also 1. Equally, the other two romances are 1, not 2, so it shouldn't lock out Viconia (and the fact that both romances are operating seems to imply that it still considers CHARNAME to be single).
Is there some specific requirement for Viconia that is needed to prompt her to begin the first romance dialogue? I have had her in the party for a few weeks, and so far nothing. Advancing time doesn't do anything for her, but does accelerate the other romances.