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Do Spoilers have Expiration Dates?

JuliusBorisovJuliusBorisov Member, Administrator, Moderator, Developer Posts: 22,754
edited February 2016 in Off-Topic
As suggested here - https://forums.beamdog.com/discussion/46347/dual-classing-imoen-to-a-mage-spoiler-alert-for-bgii-ee#latest by @Korbu, a separate thread is created not to derail that discussion.

My own view is stictly no, they don't have expiration dates. People are being born each day, they grow up each day and each day brings new people who find out about a book, a movie, a game, anything for the first time. Any amount of time passed doesn't mean a game, a movie can't interest a person. And that person will be happy to discover him- or herself all the circumstances and endings.

The EEs serve as an example that a 15-years game can attract new players, of any age and from any country. Those who got acquainted with the Gorion's Ward only in 2014, 2015 and even in 2016. Among SoD players there will be people who watch the starting movie for BG1 for the first time. Of course, this particular forum unites both games, and thus it's hard to keep everything in secret, because for every BG1 discussion there's a BG2 discussion about the same characters.

But the spoilers themselves don't expire, no, Sir. We have a warning that any discussion in an area that is not for new players is potentially spoilery, but we still have to remember that not everyone played BG, IWD or any other game till the end, not everyone saw the previous season of GoT, not everyone read the LoTR.

So, https://forums.beamdog.com/discussion/44942/please-try-to-hide-spoilers-about-things-that-are-likely-to-be-unknown#latest ;)
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  • DeeDee Member Posts: 10,447
    The way I look at it is this:

    You know which parts of a story were most important to you when you first experienced them, and you know which of those parts are important to be surprised by. If you spoil those moments for someone else, you rob them of the opportunity to be surprised in the same way that you were surprised. So you can say what you like about it being 2016 and if you don't know who Vader is by now, tough cookies--but that attitude denies a lot of people the pleasure of discovery.

    I remember going into the last few Harry Potter movies having not read the books, and hearing the people in the seats next to me discuss plot details of the movie we were about to see, and trying to explain that by giving away those details, they were robbing me of the experience of discovering those details myself and being surprised by them. When you know that a certain character is going to die, it can completely ruin the suspense of the moment; you know what's going to happen, so your reaction is muted by that foreknowledge.

    So, no. There is no statute of limitations on spoilers. There's a point where it becomes socially acceptable to talk about these details as if they were common knowledge, but there is still value in at least alerting people ahead of time before you ruin the end of The Sixth Sense for them forever.
  • the_spyderthe_spyder Member Posts: 5,018
    I agree that there are always new people to any fandom or franchise and that we should all respect that not everyone has seen/played/read (whatever) the story such that any spoiler should already be known. However, I think that sometimes we as humans slip up and just assume.

    On one of the social media sites, I saw someone post a MEME indicating that TORCHWOOD was an anagram of Doctor Who. Someone commented that their mind was blown by that revelation. Someone else posted that any TRUE Doctor Who fan should have already known that and proceeded to make another poster feel bad about not knowing that when they were bringing back the show they used the code name TORCHWOOD to keep it secret. There is nothing wrong with not knowing that and that is no indication as to how into the fandom you are. I'm sure there are things that we all don't know about our fandoms. Live and let live.

    For me, I'd love to be able to go back and play a game like Baldur's gate for the very first time. I thrill when I see a poster telling about their first run. That is a most magical time and I want to see more of that. It's no skin off my nose that they are just learning about something that I've known about for a while. I envy that they get to see things for the very first time. I try to respect that and not be spoilerish (or at least use spoiler tags). Sometimes I fail. That is bad on me, not on anyone who didn't know that
    Darth Vader is Luke's father!
    Things happen.

    Thanks for bringing up the topic as I am sure that a lot of us could be more aware of spoilers and more respectful of those who haven't yet been introduced to the things that we love. And a healthy reminder that not everyone has had our focus and that we should not deprive those 'First times' for others simply because we found out about them before anyone else.
  • VallmyrVallmyr Member, Mobile Tester Posts: 2,459
    I would say spoilers are always spoilers. Despite watching my brother play his thief back in like 2000 I only started playing Baldur's Gate in 2013. Finding that particular note in the top of Candlekeep was like, "WAIT WHAAAATTTT." Or later uncovering Aerie, my love's, past and being like "AWWWW I LOVE YOU MORE NOW!" If things like those were spoiled it would suck >_>

    As a personal thing I've come to find great distaste in modern gaming and so I've been going back and playing the Gold Box games, Infinity Engine Games, and things from that era of CRPG. Due to many of these being old I'm taking care to avoid spoilers.
  • jjstraka34jjstraka34 Member Posts: 9,850
    I don't know. It's certainly polite of people to take the time to provide spoiler warnings. But take the case of the Sixth Sense, which is always a popular and perfect example for spoilers. There is an argument to be made that almost two decades is more than enough time to openly talk about the movie and it's plot twist without ruining anything. If you wanted to see the Sixth Sense and cared, you would have by now. And if you are too young to have seen it yet, you probably aren't hanging out in a lot of places where spoilers are a big issue.
  • the_spyderthe_spyder Member Posts: 5,018
    I don't think that is quite fair. Just because you never heard of a movie or maybe movies or games or books weren't your focus back in the day that you should be deprived of that moment of the big reveal. I am a big reader and have a decade of backlog on books that I want to read. If it became common knowledge how certain ones came out, I might be less inclined to read them.

    I'll take the example of Star Wars: TFA. Before going to see the movie I had to sequester myself away from the internet because even weeks before opening day almost everywhere I looked they were spoilering the heck out of it; and I saw the movie that Saturday after it hit theaters. When I did see it, certain events like the bridge scene and the island scene were already spoiled for me. That kind of soured the experience for me.

    Now, let's say that (hypothetically) all my life I had never been interested in science Fiction movies and, after being dragged to see TFA I was so impressed with something that I had missed all my life that I decided to go back and watch A New Hope - Return of the Jedi (because I have a friend who knows the good from the crap). If I knew going in that (pick some event in the movies that wasn't revealed again in TFA), it would make the experience less enjoyable. And why? Simply because it wasn't my focus in 1979? Should I not ever convert?

    Just because you think something is common knowledge doesn't mean it is. It really doesn't hurt to use spoiler tags.
  • Son_of_ImoenSon_of_Imoen Member Posts: 1,806
    Spoilers don't expire. Just because a game is old, doesn't mean there's no new people discovering the game afresh here and now.

    Baldur's Gate 1 is from 1998 and I got to know it in 2009 - so the game was 11 years old, but I wouldn't want to be spoiled there and then.

    I haven't yet played Planescape Torment beyond the opening chapter - yet I am spoiled as to the nature of the Nameless One due to a carelessly dropped spoiler-in-the-open in some forum.
  • SethDavisSethDavis Member Posts: 1,812
    /me sees too many people joining the "never spoil anything" party and decides to join the other one

    spoilers do expire, in a manner inversely proportional to their cultural significance, due to the potential benefit to whatever the spoiler is contained within.

    how did the big comfy couch end?
    insignificant -> no real benefit to conversation or jokes -> no reason to spoil it -> don't spoil it -> we get nothing that references the big comfy couch

    how did star wars episode blah end?
    pretty darned significant -> one phrase can evoke a whole ream of memories or viewpoints -> pretty good reason to make spoiler laden references - > spoil it -> we get "Something Something Darkside"

    I find that I often enjoy the things that reference spoilers more than the thing that they've spoiled. I have had things spoiled that I would rather have experienced myself, but I cannot think of an example where I would have discovered it without the spoiler.

    I'm not saying "spoil all the things", but I think spoilers have their place and are often more constructive than destructive, at least in a public setting.
  • the_spyderthe_spyder Member Posts: 5,018
    @SethDavis - Oh, absolutely temper things with relevance.

    But are you saying that
    "Luke, I am your father."
    being a big moment in the Star Wars Universe, "SHOULD" be spoiled? Simply because it is something bigger than the fact that there is something lurking in the Trash compactor? Or did I completely miss-read your post?
  • jjstraka34jjstraka34 Member Posts: 9,850
    Another example we can use here is maybe the biggest movie twist of all-time (and I'm NOT using a spoiler tag for this). Are people who have never seen "The Empire Strikes Back" in 2016 entitled to everyone walking on eggshells around the reveal that Vader is Luke's father?? It goes to the point above, where if something becomes so culturally significant that any hope of it not being common knowledge to the majority of the general public kind of makes the entire endeavor pointless. Granted, the prequels kind of eliminate this situation altogether, but it's still a fairly valid scenario.

    I don't think this applies to any RPG in existence however, since they only have a niche appeal. But yeah, I agree it's very polite to post spoilers warnings. In most games it's a complete non-issue anyway, since most RPGs don't have any real significant plot worth spoiling the majority of the time. Baldur's Gate just happens to be one that does have a few of those moments (still less than 5 imo). So it's certainly appropriate to keep up the practice here.

    I suppose I'm not being consistent here though. One of my favorite things to do in a new relationship is to have the girl I'm seeing at the time watch "From Dusk Til Dawn" with me if she hasn't seen it and enjoy her reaction at what happens halfway through the movie....
  • SethDavisSethDavis Member Posts: 1,812

    But are you saying that

    "Luke, I am your father."
    being a big moment in the Star Wars Universe, "SHOULD" be spoiled?
    well, perhaps a better way to phrase it would have been to not be reluctant to spoil it. it has high value as a reference, and the danger of it not being known is low, but it's probably still a bit underhanded to just run into people's book clubs and shout it out before leaving.

    though that does give me a great idea for a new religion, where everything must be spoiled at every opportunity.
  • GreenWarlockGreenWarlock Member Posts: 1,354
    The threshold for spoilers decays over time, especially for things that become mainstays of pop-culture references. That does not mean you should not respect someone's desire to remain spoiler-free, no matter how obvious a reference seems, but as the topic becomes more mainstream, the onus shifts to the un-spoiled to advertise their ignorance.

    Case in point - I still have not read or seen any of the Harry Potter works, and I am trying to stay as spoiler-free as I can until I get time to enjoy them properly - probably starting with the books that I own but still have not read. I think it entirely unreasonable of me if I get upset at someone casually dropping a Potter reference that gives away some key detail that I have managed to avoid to this day - I had my chance. However, if I am in conversation and Potter comes up, I will advertise my desire to remain spoiler free, and am happy to leave the conversation for a while if it is important for the others to discuss that material. It would be extremely rude to force the spoiler on me though, after the warning, without giving me a chance to withdraw - or handling the topic with care if the potter reference is not essential.

    I think Star Wars and Star Trek have been in that status for years. It was interesting seeing the reaction to Lord of the Rings spoilers at the time. OTOH, I think we are a long way from being free to spoil the newest Star Wars entry.
  • jjstraka34jjstraka34 Member Posts: 9,850
    I've never thought the revelation about Rosebud in Citizen Kane was half as important as it's made out to be, it's a nice little twist, but it really has very little to do with what makes it one of the best movies of all-time. I think the movie would have the same impact if it was any random object from any part of his past.
  • GreenWarlockGreenWarlock Member Posts: 1,354
    Hmm, wondering if there is a way to rate how badly the film experience is affected if spoiled. Are some films more susceptible to this than others?

    For example, I think the oft-cited Sixth Sense is at one end of the scale. What is at the other? Something like Boyhood? The main take-away from that film is that it is fun watching a film-maker deliver such a long-running project, and seeing the cast grow and evolve in front of you. Knowing the end point does not matter, it is more about the journey. What other movies can we suggest that are difficult (but probably not impossible) to spoil?
  • KorbuKorbu Member Posts: 61
    edited February 2016
    Here's a fun spoiler.
    Germany lost World War II

    Lol. Although, could you imagine if someone today didn't already know that, and was reading a history book, yet hadn't reached that point, and somebody "spoiled" it for them?
  • booinyoureyesbooinyoureyes Member Posts: 6,164
    edited February 2016
    Spoilers are forever, since they are relative to the new member of the audience/reader/playing community. That said, at time I have felt frustrated having to dance around the fact that the Throne of Bhaal exclusive NPC is
    Sarevok
    .

    I have had several things spoiled for me (notably the third Matrix movie) and it was not fun. My brother had the new Star Wars film spoiled for him, and he was very upset. In fact, I was even more upset on his behalf... his friend did it intentionally thinking it would be really funny and not realizing that it is actually a big deal with some people.

    Due to those experiences, I try to be cautious when I can. However, I do think there is a point where people should expect spoilers, particularly on this forum where the game has been around longer than some of the players.


    I do think you can safely spoil Empire Strikes Back without fear. Same with Soylent Green.
    But not
    Kaiser Soze
  • the_spyderthe_spyder Member Posts: 5,018
    @booinyoureyes - to be honest, the third Matrix movie spoiled itself.

    To be clear on my own personal view point. I have in the past thoughtlessly blurted things out because I have thought of those things as common knowledge. Like the ultimate solution to The Sixth Sense or the lineage of a certain boy farmer, it happens. And I am not saying that anyone who lets slip with something like "Loki betrays Thor" in the Marvel Cinematic universe movies is a "Bad" person. I'm just saying that it doesn't hurt to consider your audience before you post something. If you think it is reasonable that someone reading/viewing the information might not appreciate the spoiler, it takes almost no time at all to put a spoiler tag.

    I also think that it is not necessary to use ludicrous extremes as examples. Yes, all movies end (well, except Ground Hog day and the Twilight Saga). That isn't a spoiler.
  • ValamirCleaverValamirCleaver Member Posts: 184
    edited February 2016


    SNAPE KILLS TRINITY WITH ROSEBUD! (And then it turns out they're both Tyler Durden.)
    — xkcd http://xkcd.com/109/

    "Alright, film students, are you ready? IT WAS HIS SLED! HAHAHAHA! Now you don't have to sit there for three hours!"
    — Craig Ferguson, The Late Late Show with Craig Ferguson

    "...and Rosebud was just a sled. Oh no, I didn't spoil it for you, did I?"
    — Veronica, Veronica Mars

    "If you are going to complain about a spoiler that the Master (hehehe) features in "The Keeper of Traken" then tough shit, you're about 30 odd years too late to have a whinge."
    —Joe Ford on Doctor Who, "The Keeper of Traken"
    http://docohobigfinish.blogspot.co.uk/2015/04/the-keeper-of-traken-written-by-johnny.html

    "What?! Gandalf comes back?! Dude, why'd you spoil it?"
    "Dave, it's been in print for 50 years. It's like me telling you that Hamlet dies at the end of the play."
    "Hamlet dies!?"
    — Dave and Greg, Real Life Comics

    Yami: I see. Then the only way to defeat you is to spoil every plot twist in existence, thereby ridding the public of any desire to see your convoluted mess of a movie series!
    Arkana: You wouldn't dare!
    Yami: Wanna bet? [inhales] Snape kills-
    [many spoilers later]
    Yami: ...Nicole Kidman is a ghost, and Rosebud is the sled.
    Arkana: No! He's spoiling all the best plot twists!
    —Yu-Gi-Oh! The Abridged Series, episode 30

    "Spoiler Alert - This article contains spoilers for Harry Potter (Snape kills Dumbledore), Star Wars (Darth Vader is Luke's father), Citizen Kane (it was his sled), The Sixth Sense (Bruce Willis is a ghost) and the dictionary (zyzzyva)."
    —LEGO Harry Potter as Explained by Someone Who Has Never Read Harry Potter
    http://www.mytgn.co.uk/forum/content.php?70-LHPaEbSWHNRHP-Part-2-Harry-Potter-and-the-Chamber-of-Secrets

    "Kong?! You don't want me to spoil Kong, a seventy-year-old movie? There's a statute of limitations on this shit, man. [...] Have you seen The Passion yet? Spoiler alert: Jesus dies."
    — Gabe, Penny Arcade

    "- So wait!!! The crazy old hobo WAS LUCY!?!?!?!"
    "- Yes, and Snape kills Dumbledore. Also, Darth Vader is Luke Skywalker's father."
    "- And, appropriately enough, Soylent Green is people."
    — Comments to a Sweeney Todd video.

    Lucy: What are you watching?
    Linus: "Citizen Kane".
    Lucy: I've seen it about ten times.
    Linus: This is the first time I've ever seen it...
    Lucy: "Rosebud" was his sled!
    Linus: AAUGH!!
    —Peanuts http://davidlavery.net/Courses/3870/Films/Peanuts_Kane.jpg

    Sideshow Bob: The greatest murder since Snape killed Dumbledore!
    Bart: Aw, I haven't gotten to that part yet!
    Bob: It's a four-year-old book.
    Bart: I'm a slow reader.
    —The Simpsons

    Cloud87450: Yeah, Super Mario Bros. 2 was actually All Just a Dream!
    Chip Cheezum: Whaaaat?
    slowbeef: Oh my god, the surprise twist to this twenty-year-old game.
    — Retsupurae note "Uh, well close to like 25, really."

    Leia's his sister and Vader's his dad
    What could I have said that would make her so mad?
    Norman Bates' mom is dead, Bruce Willis is a ghost,
    And Jesus comes back three days after he's toast
    — "Spoiler Alert" by Tom Smith http://www.thefump.com/fump.php?id=118

    "Is that a spoiler? The story has been out since 490 B.C."
    —Roger Ebert, discussing a plot point in his review of Clash of the Titans

    Harrison: My name... is... Khan
    Jeremy: Surprise! But, only if you're four.
    —CinemaSins, Everything Wrong with Star Trek Into Darkness.

  • SethDavisSethDavis Member Posts: 1,812
    edited February 2016
    I've noticed that people give too much power to spoilers as well. for instance, my brother found out that [spoiler=Bioshock Infinite Spoiler] Elizabeth if your daughter [/spoiler] and he decided that the whole plot was ruined for him and won't play the game. While it does seem like that's a huge thing to have spoiled, the game has so many little twists that by the end of it that's one of the least mind blowing things.
  • SquireSquire Member Posts: 511
    I dunno... how long can we reasonably be expected to avoid saying the famous (and often mis-quoted) line from The Empire Strikes Back, just in case somebody within earshot hasn't seen it? Surely there must come a point at which we can expect everybody to know that particular twist well enough to not have to look around warily just before we jokingly (mis)quote that line.
  • gorgonzolagorgonzola Member Posts: 3,864

    I still have not read or seen any of the Harry Potter works, and I am trying to stay as spoiler-free as I can until I get time to enjoy them properly

    Darth Vader is Harry's father!
  • the_spyderthe_spyder Member Posts: 5,018
    Squire said:

    I dunno... how long can we reasonably be expected to avoid saying the famous (and often mis-quoted) line from The Empire Strikes Back, just in case somebody within earshot hasn't seen it? Surely there must come a point at which we can expect everybody to know that particular twist well enough to not have to look around warily just before we jokingly (mis)quote that line.

    Do you mean?
    "It's a Trap!"


    Yes, I know that is from "Jedi", but I was trying to be funny.
  • gorgonzolagorgonzola Member Posts: 3,864
    I think that every new player who read the boards before the first run of the game spoils himself, if someone really want a real non spoiler first time he has to first play the game and then read the boards.
    Also if everyone uses spoiler warnings a lot of things are spoiled anyway.
    As a not EE user I am spoiled on a lot of things about the new EE NPCs and their quests, and is my fault, I can only blame myself and the decision to read this boards and to partecipate. When I will shift to EE I will have less surprise. But I am happy that people put some details about this under spoilers, being spoiled to a certain level is unavoidable, to keep that level the lowest possible is polite and "newbie friendly".

    So I try to spoil the lesser that I can and I try to be "topic sensitive", in the topic "I am new to BG, which weapon proficiences you suggest for F/C?" I feel free to tell that flail xxx will be available a lot before hammer yyy.
    In the topic "Give suggestions to a newbie, but please don't spoil too much" I put it under spoiler if I tell it at all.
  • the_spyderthe_spyder Member Posts: 5,018

    I think that every new player who read the boards before the first run of the game spoils himself, if someone really want a real non spoiler first time he has to first play the game and then read the boards.

    I think this is a bit uncharitable. There are many reasons why someone might come to the forum that are not spoiler related.
  • gorgonzolagorgonzola Member Posts: 3,864
    @the_spyder.
    Shure, if they ask something related to installation problems, game bugs or similar things.
    But if someone read the boards of a completely unknown game, even if in the boards the maximum attention in don't spoil things is used, is unavoidable that he will learn a lot of things, about the plot and other, that will spoil their surprise.
    I never played Dragon's Age Origins or Final Fantasy, for me those are just names and I barely know that are CRPGs fantasy related. If I want a real no spoiler experience of them I have to install them on my pc and start a game. If before actually playing go on their boards and start to read I will start my first run better prepared but spoiled of a lot of surprise.
    This is unavoidable, not uncharitable.
  • SethDavisSethDavis Member Posts: 1,812
    @gorgonzola - I believe the chief issue that's been going 'round is that people come here knowing bg, click a topic talking about bg, read a post they think is talking about bg, and find out that dumbledore is actually voldermort's twin brother. so, mostly avoidable
  • the_spyderthe_spyder Member Posts: 5,018
    @gorgonzola - the uncharitable bit is where you say "if you don't want to be spoiler, don't come to the forum". People come to this social community for a lot of things including tech support, but also for tips and hints (without things being ruined), suggestions on bugs and fixes and mods and simply to share in or learn about this game called Baldur's Gate.

    I for one am not saying that if you accidentally let slip that
    Saravok appears as a joinable character in Throne of Bhaal
    . It happens. I'm not even saying that you are a 'Bad' person if you spoil something major.
    Vader is Luke's father
    I'm just saying that it takes very little extra effort on your part to at least be aware that people may not know all of the spoilers of a game, book or movie that you do, even the VERY COMMON and Public ones. If you think something is or was intended to be a surprise, you really lose nothing at all from your life to put a spoiler tag around it. And it might actually save someone reading the forum from learning something that will make the experience less than it could be.
  • DeeDee Member Posts: 10,447
    @the_spyder touches on the primary reason why the site rules explicitly say "don't spoil the fun" - it's not that we don't want people to talk about the game's story, but rather that we want to be welcoming of new players that might not know about every plot twist. You're not going to be banned for accidentally spoiling something for somebody, but it's general courtesy to offer spoiler warnings before giving something significant away, especially in a discussion that isn't already tagged for spoilers.

    Incidentally, I notice that whenever someone brings up the topic of spoilers (especially in the context of "please don't spoil this for me"), the first instinct of a lot of people is to actively spoil several things at once, as a joke. I'll say this right now: I don't find the joke amusing. In fact I find it disrespectful; at its basest level, it's the very definition of trolling, and I expect better behavior than that from this community.
  • gorgonzolagorgonzola Member Posts: 3,864
    @the_spyder , @Dee ,
    I agree with both of you.
    I wrote " being spoiled to a certain level is unavoidable, to keep that level the lowest possible is polite and "newbie friendly",
    and also "I try to spoil the lesser that I can and I try to be "topic sensitive"."
    But I don't change my opinion, that is not opposite to your opinions, as what I quoted is part of what I think.
    I don't change it according to my experience, when I started to play BG2 I had no internet, one day I saw a friend playing it, he was fighting a tough black monster, with a lot of failures and reloads.
    So I got the game and I began to play. Only playing I discovered that the monster was
    the Shadow Dragon

    Every thing was new and fresh, from the main plot, to the NPCs, to every little detail, that now I know so well. Every little decision was really a step in the dark, things like
    the abduction of Imoen, the betrayal of Yoshimo, Irenicus stealing my divine soul

    was really unespected.
    To side with the thieves or that mysterious Valen's mistress, I had no idea about her being a vampire, and discovering that she was also Irenicus sister was a second unexpected surprise ,

    was really a choice in the dark.
    I had also little or no knowledge of the combat system or BG2 magic, in that first run I was not so effective, even a couple of goblins (and I am talking of SoA, not BG) was a big problem.
    But it was so special, so fantastic, because I was really not spoiled at all.
    I really think that if the first run of a game is before reading the boards the player gain something that can happen only that time and that way, then he will have a lot of time to partecipate to the boards, expanding his knowledge and sharing tricks, tactics and opinions with other players.
  • GreenWarlockGreenWarlock Member Posts: 1,354
    edited February 2016
    @SethDavis davis - did you just spoil the topic I explicitly mentioned on this thread I was seeking to avoid spoilers on (and with effort, have largely succeeded for a crazy long time) in order to demonstrate the kind of accident we should avoid?! Or are you just messing with me?

    I guess even answering that question would spoil me in some way :(

    (I /really/ need to get around to reading that stuff, but only so much free time to go around)
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