I love the neighbours Finland has without mitigation, less Russia which I love with some mitigation - which has nothing to do with Russians.
Foolish as I may be, I imagine the Russians view the Finns positively, and were I in St Petersburg, the locals would try to help me to a sight as much as I wanted to be of use to Russian tourists wanting to find in Helsinki Cathedral.
Nordics and Estonia are superb neighbours, and this makes me also EU-positive, because Nordic cooperation was both early and deep.
It tires me to see nasty feelz about neighbours, when I know it can be great. Do you ever feel the same?
And while ES-FI is not a perfect relation, I think it is pretty great. If you do not feel the same sentimentality about your neighbour - or regional cluster country - why not?
Especially EU citizens - but not only - do tell!