@Grum: I wasn't talking about her wings or her scars. I was thinking she could turn into a spider with Polymorph Self to entertain people, and Haer'dalis.
I don't romance Aerie anymore. My Charnames are all female. Besides, Pai'Na is much more fun in the (web) sack.
Aerie is just fun to romance once IMO. Her behaviour changing from the caricatural pure innocent virgin in SoA to the actually naughty girl in ToB were quite of a disappointment. I really do prefer Neera or Jaheira
I really like her romance in SoA as well but her romance in ToB is just terrible IMO. Every dialogue she says something like "You will see tonight if I am that innocent". It is so opposite to her behaviour in SoA I really found it terrible
I don't see it as such... I just see it as her finally committing to you, maturing enough to handle that, and finally gaining the confidence to move on to the next stage. None of us really stay innocent forever. She had been through quite a lot from traveling with you and it changed her a bit. Besides, she still seems innocent enough to me in ToB, she is just maturing a bit is all.
I really like her romance in SoA as well but her romance in ToB is just terrible IMO. Every dialogue she says something like "You will see tonight if I am that innocent". It is so opposite to her behaviour in SoA I really found it terrible
I disagree with that as well. I consider it to be character progression.
Given everything you go through in the saga, it would be disappointing (and annoying for many people) if Aerie remained hesitant and shy all the way to the end of ToB. Frankly I don't think that version of Aerie could survive the challenges you must overcome.
I loved the Aerie romance, and having seen Viconia and Jaheira's content as well, Aerie remains my favourite. I especially love how confident she grows in ToB. When she tells you about her pregnancy, she has no doubt that Charname is committed to her. And one of my most memorable moments of my first playthrough was the wedding just before entering the Throne of Blood and facing Melissan. To this day I don't know if that was scripted or just lucky coincidence, but I found it very appropriate and touching.
Well, I agree it is nice that she is not as shy as she was in SoA. She matures and that's fine. But I do hold on my position saying she may have become a little too explicit sex-wise. I almost feel like I am romancing Viconia at this point
Sex itself is not a problem. It is just that Aerie speaking as Viconia just does not sound right to me. I mean, she could imply sex in the discussion, occasionnally. But IMHO it is too much. It is not that I am shocked or anything. It is just that, to me, it doesn't fit the character. I do get and agree your "maturing" point. But an innocent young girl does not "mature" that hard in a couple of months time. Jaheira, why not. Viconia, certainly. But Aerie? No way
@Grum I figured it was. Oh, and for the record, my autistic condition is more to blame than your charisma. I have about a 25% chance to not realize that a joke was made.
And for the record, don't let my wife read that. I think that she might be a monk, given her unarmed combat skills when I make bad jokes about our relationship.
@Grum: I fail to see what is horrifying about somebody not sticking to their biological sex. I do not think we should be bothered by the concept of sexual fluidity or a sex change--particularly considering this particular form of a sex change doesn't even involve surgery.
Some people are born female and transition to male. This is not horrifying.
What is horrifying is that the characters get to know you as a gnome, dwarf, whatever. Then see you get cursed into the opposite gender...and then, and only then, will romance you. It's just messed up.
And this from someone who wishes that Jan's advances on Viconia were not so cruelly rejected. They'd have made a great couple.
Aerie's story suffers badly from overcompressing her character development. Going from (mysteriously powerful) PTSD-wracked naif, just setting out after what she went through in captivity, to utterly confident ToB Aerie over a few months is pretty jarring, especially in contrast to the rest of the cast; even Anomen only manages to change from Lawful Insufferable to Lawful Kind-of-Bearable. I think it would work better if more of either end (or maybe both) were pushed into backstory and epilogue.
Then again, I went with the Aerie romance back when BG2 was new and again for my first time through EE, so apparently something about her character works for me.
@Grum: This is a long post, but I think this is an important subject.
As for me... I can think of three separate men that I would gladly date if they were to somehow become women. I've never been attracted to a man, but I have been very fond of some, and I wouldn't hold it against them that they used to be men. Knowing somebody as one sex does not mean it would be so awful to see them as another.
So, we have Aerie. She's straight. She's fond of my Charname and they're close friends. Charname is interested in Aerie, but Aerie just doesn't want a woman. So far, pretty reasonable.
Charname becomes a woman. The only obstacle to a relationship--sexual incompatibility--is now gone. They become a couple, because they are find of each other, and because the sexual attraction is now mutual. What else do you need for a relationship than love and friendship?
Is it weird that Aerie, as a straight woman, would accept a transgender man? Is it weird that Charname should still like Aerie, after becoming a man? Aerie can't help being straight. It is not "messed up" that she's only attracted to men. It is not "messed up" that she would accept Charname after Charname became attractive to her. Would you expect Aerie as a straight woman to accept a female Charname, even if Aerie is not attracted to her? I wouldn't. Would you expect Aerie to reject Charname after Charname became a man? It's perfectly reasonable for Aerie to want a male Charname, but not a female Charname.
I see nothing strange or horrifying about a straight woman being attracted to a man, even if that man has lived as a woman. You seem to think that Aerie should either accept Charname, regardless of her sex, or reject Charname, regardless of her sex. How would Aerie explain that?
"Yeah, I know you're a man now, and I know I said the only problem was your sex, but you still USED to be a woman, and I can't handle the knowledge that you underwent a sex change. That's all."
There's nothing wrong with Aerie only being attracted to one sex. There's nothing wrong with Charname becoming the other sex. And there's nothing wrong with Aerie saying, "You got a new body I'm attracted to. Sure we can add a sexual element to our relationship."
I suppose if you put it that way...my wisdom score is high enough to accept that other people think differently than me. So I'll retract my 'horrifying' comment and replace it with 'well...if a cursed gender changed gnome and a drow love each other, then who am I to say no?'
Comments
Werewolf Cernd
Jaheira druid shapehsifted
Wilson the bear
Haer'dalis the tiefling bard
You could quite easily have your party double as a traveling circus!
I don't romance Aerie anymore. My Charnames are all female. Besides, Pai'Na is much more fun in the (web) sack.
Uhm...what I mean to say is...she has alot of experience in running a circus. Yes...
Her behaviour changing from the caricatural pure innocent virgin in SoA to the actually naughty girl in ToB were quite of a disappointment. I really do prefer Neera or Jaheira
I should probably split this discussion now...
Given everything you go through in the saga, it would be disappointing (and annoying for many people) if Aerie remained hesitant and shy all the way to the end of ToB. Frankly I don't think that version of Aerie could survive the challenges you must overcome.
I loved the Aerie romance, and having seen Viconia and Jaheira's content as well, Aerie remains my favourite. I especially love how confident she grows in ToB. When she tells you about her pregnancy, she has no doubt that Charname is committed to her. And one of my most memorable moments of my first playthrough was the wedding just before entering the Throne of Blood and facing Melissan. To this day I don't know if that was scripted or just lucky coincidence, but I found it very appropriate and touching.
It is not that I am shocked or anything. It is just that, to me, it doesn't fit the character. I do get and agree your "maturing" point. But an innocent young girl does not "mature" that hard in a couple of months time. Jaheira, why not. Viconia, certainly. But Aerie? No way
I knew that I shouldn't have used Cha as my dump stat...
It gave me the best chuckle I’ve had all day.
And for the record, don't let my wife read that. I think that she might be a monk, given her unarmed combat skills when I make bad jokes about our relationship.
Is there a mod to get Aerie sweet on a female Charname?
I just always assume the innocence and naivete is her being manipulative and self-absorbed.
Some people are born female and transition to male. This is not horrifying.
And this from someone who wishes that Jan's advances on Viconia were not so cruelly rejected. They'd have made a great couple.
Then again, I went with the Aerie romance back when BG2 was new and again for my first time through EE, so apparently something about her character works for me.
As for me... I can think of three separate men that I would gladly date if they were to somehow become women. I've never been attracted to a man, but I have been very fond of some, and I wouldn't hold it against them that they used to be men. Knowing somebody as one sex does not mean it would be so awful to see them as another.
So, we have Aerie. She's straight. She's fond of my Charname and they're close friends. Charname is interested in Aerie, but Aerie just doesn't want a woman. So far, pretty reasonable.
Charname becomes a woman. The only obstacle to a relationship--sexual incompatibility--is now gone. They become a couple, because they are find of each other, and because the sexual attraction is now mutual. What else do you need for a relationship than love and friendship?
Is it weird that Aerie, as a straight woman, would accept a transgender man? Is it weird that Charname should still like Aerie, after becoming a man? Aerie can't help being straight. It is not "messed up" that she's only attracted to men. It is not "messed up" that she would accept Charname after Charname became attractive to her. Would you expect Aerie as a straight woman to accept a female Charname, even if Aerie is not attracted to her? I wouldn't. Would you expect Aerie to reject Charname after Charname became a man? It's perfectly reasonable for Aerie to want a male Charname, but not a female Charname.
I see nothing strange or horrifying about a straight woman being attracted to a man, even if that man has lived as a woman. You seem to think that Aerie should either accept Charname, regardless of her sex, or reject Charname, regardless of her sex. How would Aerie explain that?
"Yeah, I know you're a man now, and I know I said the only problem was your sex, but you still USED to be a woman, and I can't handle the knowledge that you underwent a sex change. That's all."
There's nothing wrong with Aerie only being attracted to one sex. There's nothing wrong with Charname becoming the other sex. And there's nothing wrong with Aerie saying, "You got a new body I'm attracted to. Sure we can add a sexual element to our relationship."
What else would you expect Aerie to do?