This is a great forum
JuliusBorisov
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in Off-Topic
I just want to thank everyone here for their amazing support. When I created an account on this forum in November I didn't even think about staying for so long and about writing so many messages. Yeah, I see 470 as a big figure.
I work as a lawyer and have not much time not only to play a game but to attend this site. But it's nice that even while doing so serious job I see sense and find pleasure to write on this forum.
Today the number of positive reactions to my messages became equal to the number of my posts. Maybe it's not the most important thing in my live but it still shows that the will I put in each post is not useless. I hope some of them were really helpful, some of them made you smile and some of them gave support to your own posts.
It's possible only because of an unbelievable and unmatched atmosphere on this forum. I try to contribute to it as much as I'm able to.
I'm ready to continue and looking forward to make new friends.
I can only say positive things about all of you guys.
Cheers!
P.S. Let's share the stories of staying on this forum. I'll appreciate your own history and experience
I work as a lawyer and have not much time not only to play a game but to attend this site. But it's nice that even while doing so serious job I see sense and find pleasure to write on this forum.
Today the number of positive reactions to my messages became equal to the number of my posts. Maybe it's not the most important thing in my live but it still shows that the will I put in each post is not useless. I hope some of them were really helpful, some of them made you smile and some of them gave support to your own posts.
It's possible only because of an unbelievable and unmatched atmosphere on this forum. I try to contribute to it as much as I'm able to.
I'm ready to continue and looking forward to make new friends.
I can only say positive things about all of you guys.
Cheers!
P.S. Let's share the stories of staying on this forum. I'll appreciate your own history and experience
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I have really small expectation and faith when it comes to people, especially internauts. And yet, this is the best forum I have ever seen. No kidding. People are pretty civil and inteligent here. To my surprise, I have realized that you can talk about everything in here (in the off-topic category, that is). Also, I found myself liking some people here I disliked before, which is odd from me.
I have also learned something about Baldur's Gate fandom in general. Some facts about this fandom surprised me, some vere pretty obvious. I have never thought that Khalid is so hated, for example. It was obvious, though, that Viconia is most popular when it comes to romances in BGII.
Overall, I really like people here, even if some tendecies here aren't in my liking. Like a drow fetish.
I enjoy being member of this forum for more than year now and I hope I will stay here even more.
@bengoshi - Beware of the Drow-lovers though! Too much Drow-loving going on around here. If you see any such heinous act taking place, please report it to the nearest Flaming Fist officer at once.
I think many of them are jealous of him and want Jaheira for themselves
And yes I was never much of a forum guy. I used to participate in 'debates' on Youtube, but they degenerate into pointless flame wars 90% of the time, especially when it comes to serious political issues that I care about.
This forum is a nice change from typical online communities, where I've felt welcome from day one, had all my quests answered and been able to hold reasonable debates with people even when opinions strongly disagreed.
And about drows... I think it comes from the certain person who used to have a Tear of Bhaal badge... The popularity of this person here led to the growth of Drow-lovers movement... We can call them Samus progeny...
The Lord of Drow-love shall perish. But in his death he shall spawn a score of mortal progeny. Chaos will be sown from their passion.
No offense to you, bengoshi. It's good that you think the community is nice and friendly and want to hang out here, and this isn't directed to you as much as it is to the other people in the thread. It's just that thoughts like these fosters a sentiment of navel-gazing, elitism and clique-think that down the way is the enemy of friendliness and intelligent discussion. Parts of me dies a little every time I see them.
I'm very grateful to have a home base like this, and good online friends like this, even the ones I argue with a lot, or have frequent disagreements with.
I check this forum way more often than Facebook or email. There's always something going on in here that interests me. It never lets me down or bores me. I spend way too much time reading and posting here. I think I have more in common with the people here than I do with most of my real life friends.
This isn't an exclusive group. One of the awesome things about this community is its inclusiveness. Everyone is welcome, as long as they know how to behave respectfully and treat others with courtesy, even in disagreement.
There's no harm in occasionally saying to the people in the forum, "I appreciate you. Thank you for being here!"
disclaimer: this is a joke.
Things are getting a *little* tense here in Off-Topic today. Let's all lighten up and remember what good friends we are! Don't worry, be happy!
The forum is like finding a bag of holding when overloaded with crap.
But in my short time here, this forum has demonstrated itself to be one of the few mature places on the internet, something which I feel is demonstrated in the way people have taken a potential, though totally appreciable, volatile comment such as yours and treated it with grace and civility. More importantly I don't think anyone is mad or frustrated which even I find shocking. in 99% of online forums these days I can guarantee you that a post like that on a thread like this would have been flamed or trolled into oblivion, usually by some invisible forum stalker whom aggravates everyone who reads it.
Then again, everyone here knows that flames kill trolls so that might be why everyone is being so civil...
F*!$% trolls, use fire.
It is just great to discover I am not the only one being so fond of the BG series. Really I know only one person irl beside myself who used to play this.
Also it is nice to find a forum where it is your ability to communicate in a decent way and being able to express your self without being rude over really unfriendly disagreeing.
Also I really enjoy how you take all members serious. There is nothing asked to small or to big and the response time is amazingly fast.
I guess I have come to stay on this forum for a long time and just want to salute you members saying keep up the good work in here
Or, you will end up doing that to someone.
They actually teach this in schools, not at all kidding.
Not that it's all a lie. People do abuse the Internet and do terrible things, and cyberbullying really is bad, but it is somewhat exaggerated in schools.
So, this forum is a welcome exception from the usual animosity of the Internet. Almost everyone here is absolutely wonderful, apparently only intelligent people stick with a game for 15 years. I had no idea so many people still played this game before I came here.
I learned, that there are people who love Baldur's Gate as much as I do.
I learned, that there are nice people out there who play BG. Powergamers, Role-Players, Casual gamers...all of us.
I learned, there is a place in this surface world, where a poor MindFlayer can live and find friends.
I learned, you can make friends with a Beholder.
I learned, mummies aren't that bad. And Gnomes neither. And let's not talk about another friendly face - a mummified Gnome.
I learned, there are some nice humans too...
You...really.........think.........so?